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Best Ball Gags Are Bondage Kit Essentials

Best ball gags are available over here at UK Adult Zone but let’s take a closer look at what makes a good ball gag.

When we think of bondage and BDSM we usually think of rope, handcuffs, and deliciously sexy hitting implements. Gagging – in my experience – is often a bit of an afterthought. Why is that? Perhaps because we’ve all had it hammered home that BDSM should come with a safeword, and so a gag could get in the way of that. In reality, though, there are many more ways to indicate ‘stop’ than just shouting ‘red!’ or ‘kerfuffle!’ or whatever your chosen word is.

Let’s start with that, because it’s so important: if you’re engaging in gagged bondage, you’ll need something a little easier as your ‘stop’ sign than a safeword. In the past I’ve had people hand me something that I can grip onto, so they know when I drop it I want out. Alternatively, if your hands are free or visible, you can have a hand signal that means ‘stop’ – this one’s only if your partner’s good at concentration, though. You don’t want to risk doing the signal (clicking your fingers or whatnot) and having them too involved in the action to notice.

So, with that out of the way, let’s have a look at some of the best gags you can use if you fancy having a go at this.

Ball Gag

When considering the best ball gags, we need to start with the peoples choice. These are the most common, and one of the most loved. The ball goes in your mouth and fills it up, leaving just a nice gap either side so you drool slightly through it. I know, it sounds like bad manners, but guys I have been with have loved this aspect of the ball gag best of all. If you want to pick one up, you might like to start with this Fetish Fantasy Ball Gag training kit which comes with balls of a few different sizes so you can find the best one for you. For a bit more flexibility, you can get an inflatable ball gag, which has the added benefit that you can change size depending on how hardcore you’re feeling that day.

Dildo Gags

These are gags that strap a silicone dildo into your mouth – giving you something to suck on while everything else is happening. These usually come with shorter cock attachments than your average strap-on or something designed to go inside you, because permanent stimulation of your gag reflex can be… umm… messy. Will they make the best ball gags for your next session?

Fishhook Gags

Rather than stuffing your mouth full, the fishhook gag is there to just spread it wide. It has similar benefits to the ball gags in that it makes you look deliciously vulnerable, and it has the added benefit that it gives your top easy access to your mouth. These are easier to use with safewords, because you can still (sort of) speak through them. However, if your safeword is ‘a bottle o beer’ then you may well struggle. Best to have a backup, to be on the safe side.

Spider Gags and Open Mouth Gags

Don’t be frightened! This does look like the most extreme gag but used properly it should still be comfortable enough that you can use it for a fun session without your eyes watering. If the spider gag looks a bit too extreme for you, then the open-mouth gag is a slightly less intense version. Both are designed to hold your mouth open so your partner can do what they like with you. I’ll leave that to your imagination…

So, What are the Best Ball Gags

I’m going to cheat a bit here as I answer the question and say: all of then. I’m serious – if you love gagging then I suspect almost any of these could easily float your boat. My personal favourite are the open-mouth gags, just because they leave me in a deliciously vulnerable position and mean I get one of the submissive things I love the most (one word: spit). But for you the thrill might be in the muffled noises you can make behind a ball gag or the humiliation of being stretched and made to feel ridiculous in a fishhook gag.

I can tell you which is best for me, but I can’t give you an overall winner: it’s way more fun if you find out for yourself.

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2017 Sex Toys Trends Uncovered

2017 Sex Toys

2017 sex toys trends are all about the tech. When it comes to getting a buzz from your personal play,  there’s an app for that! From robots to bluetooth to drones, the tech sex industry is on fire.

Let’s take a look at some exciting 2017 sex toy trends that you can get your hands on right now and look at some of the latest trends in the world of sex and pleasure. The AskMen sex 100 takes us through some products and trends that I would like to share with you right here and now.

Product: Tenga eggs

I’m delighted to see these on anyone’s list of ‘sex toys for 2017’, because although they’ve been around for a while, Tenga eggs are still not as widely known as they should be. To my mind, if you have a dick you should also have a go with a Tenga egg. They’re small, portable, textured masturbators that come with individual sachets of lube – so you’re good to go as soon as you get the delivery. They are lighter and easier to use than some of the larger masturbators like Fleshlight, so make a perfect addition to your ‘travel sex’ collection.

Trend: Edging

This is apparently a new trend, which would probably come as a surprise to some of the gentlemen I’ve had sex with. Edging – the practice of bringing yourself to just the ‘edge’ of orgasm, then stopping just before you come – is something I’ve always enjoyed watching guys do. It’s just hot seeing the moment right before they tip over the edge, and the build-up of frustration. If you’ve never tried it yourself, I’m told it’s very fun. I just can’t quite manage it myself because I am too impatient for orgasm.

Trend: Group sex

I don’t need to tell you much here other than that ‘group sex’ is apparently a new trend. I mean, surely group sex has been pretty popular for a while, no? I seem to remember the Romans having a fair amount of orgiastic fun. Still, if it’s getting more popular, that means there must be more people out there who are willing to dive into a group situation, so if orgies are on your bucket list then maybe have a go at making one happen in 2017.

Product: Dildo drone

OK, I may have teased you ever so slightly with this one – the dildo drone doesn’t actually exist. Yet. But imagine all the things you could do by strapping your favourite dildo onto a remote-controlled drone? You’ve effectively created a helicopter that can be fine-tuned to hump you from above.

Just make sure you keep your important bits away from the rotor blades. Eek.

Trend: FreeTheNipple

You may have missed this campaign in 2016, but you’ll probably be seeing much more of it this year. As a response to social media platforms censoring female, but not male nipples, lots of people have been kicking up a storm under the ‘ #FreeTheNipple’ hashtag. And rightly so – why should one nipple be banned but another not? In response to the seemingly sexist and arbitrary rules, accounts like @genderless_nipples are trying to challenge the reasoning behind these rules by posting pictures of just nipples – with no way of telling whether the nipple belongs to a guy or a girl. Excellent work, and not just because it’s a great excuse to look at a wide variety of nipples. Want to get your nipples out in 2017? Pick up some lovely lingerie, or simply strip it all off. Be careful where you post the pics though…

Trend: Butt stuff

I’ve saved my favourite for last, although you can check out everything in the top sex 100 here. ‘Butt stuff’ comes in at number 12 on the list, and it very much deserves to be at the top. Not only because butt stuff (whether it’s prostate massage, butt plugs, pegging or anything else) is fun, but also because I think more people are becoming comfortable exploring their own anal desires. With each year that goes by, more people find my sex blog by searching ‘butt plug tips’ or ‘how do I do anal?’, and I think that’s only going to continue. So if you haven’t tried it yet but you’re tempted, go pick up a slim ‘starter’ butt plug and get 2017 off to a… umm… cracking start.

Sorry. I just couldn’t resist a butt pun.

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No sex please, I’m tired!

Whether it’s your career, your kids or both that’sgetting in the way of you feeling sexy, don’t despair – you really can have it all!

The key is time management. So you’re prepared for that important meeting, you know what day the kid’s need their PE kit and what you need to get for your friend coming over for dinner. So why is it, that sex seems to be last on your priority list? We all know that the more we have sex, the more we want it. So it stands to reason that if we don’t treat it as a priority and find we are too tired by the end of the day, we are sure to find ourselves in a never ending spiral of being too tired and lacking desire.

As unsexy as it may sound you need to set time aside for you and you partner to have time together with no distractions. If you have kids, get a babysitter, if you find it difficult to get away from work, turn your phone off. You need time to remember why you fell in love with your partner in the first place and enjoy them as a person and not as a parent or house mate.

Set the scene. Clear away any toys, nappies, washing that may be ordinary scenery. Replace with candles, rose petals and spray the air or sheets with something nice. Scenery also includes you! So make an effort. Indulge in some sexy lingerie if you’re a lady and if you’re a guy then splash on the aftershave. Feeling confident with how you look will help you to feel sexy later as well as being a great tease.

If one or both of you is stressed, erotic massage is a great way to start things off. Not only is it ideal for relaxing you, it increases intimacy between you and your partner and awakens senses that may be suppressed. The Romantic Massage Kit has all you need as well as a booklet with massage tips included.

If you’re in a rut and want to spice things up, why not try some soft bondage? Blindfolds are a great way to build anticipation, when our sight is taken away, our other senses kick in to compensate. Try teasing with a feather tickler or using silk ties to tie them up so they’re at your mercy!

Sex toys are another great way to keep things interesting. And it’s not just the using. If you shop online, you can do it in the comfort of your own home and the choosing and the waiting for delivery can be just as fun. The key is to choose something together and be open about what you desire. Who knows? You may find something new about your partner that you didn’t know!

If one or both of you are really lacking desire I would advise a trip to the doctor to make sure that nothing is seriously wrong. However there are herbal aphrodisiacs you can try as well as lotions, creams and sprays to get things going.

Although it can be overlooked, keeping your relationship strong and healthy will in turn keep everything else in check. When you feel loved and valued by a partner your desire to work together and look after each other is stronger.

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When You Are Feeling Lonely

When you are feeling lonely, life can often seem to get on top of you. There are plenty of things you could do but feeling lonely can really bring some people down. What can you do?

Sometimes a little self indulgence can be the trick.

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What you will find is a whole bunch of girls that really know how to party and make you feel like a man. Look, nobody should ever pass on this opportunity. An hour or so with an an intelligent, caring female escort, is an hour well spent.

To meet these Escorts UK, London Escorts, Luton Escorts and so on, just head over to the site and pick the girl you always dreamed of meeting. Yes, a dream date awaits you. So, if you are feeling lonely right now, you won’t feel lonely anymore, these girls guarantee that you’ll have the time of your life!

Don’t take our work for it, you have to see for yourself. Head over there and check it out.

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8 Quotes About Sex and Masturbation

“Sex is like snow, you never know how many inches you’re going to get or how long it will last.”


With a pleasure product you know exactly how many inches you are getting, and how long it will last is completely down to you.

“Don’t knock masturbation – it’s sex with someone I love.” – Woody Allen


One of the more famous quotes about masturbation, it’s a great reminder that there’s no harm in a little self-loving.

“An orgasm a day keeps the doctor away” – Mae West


We aren’t sure on the medical accuracy of this quote from Mae West, but it’s a great point to remind you that an active sex life is a healthy part of being human.

“If God had intended us not to masturbate, he would’ve made our arms shorter.” – George Carlin


“Masturbation is the thinking man’s television” – Christopher Hampton


In this day age you might need to replace television with Netflix, but the point still stands… drifting off into your own fantasy land of beautiful filthy thoughts is an intelligent way to spend your time, no matter what toy you choose to get there.

“The good thing about masturbation is that you don’t have to dress up for it.” – Truman Capote


Being comfortable during your self-pleasure session is paramount; after all it’s all about you.

A great reminder that no matter how stressed out and uptight you’ve been at work, you can take it all off (or keep it on, whatever you fancy) when you get down to giving yourself that rush that only comes with an orgasm.

“I didn’t begin enjoying sex until I started masturbating.” – Eva Longoria


When a gorgeous superstar is backing it, you know you’re on to a winner.

“Embrace your inner pervert.”


Everyone needs to embrace their perverted side a little more, don’t you think? Grab some super kink and fetish toys!

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Extreme Masturbation Lube

Extreme masturbation requires the right lube. Whether you are a girl or a boy. Listen up.

You may think that you only need lubricant if you suffer with vaginal dryness or that it’s only for use during sexual intercourse. Well, we can clear that up right away, that is just not the case. You may not have considered this yet (although if you’re an escort you probably have already) but using lubricant during masturbation can really heighten the whole experience and make it much easier to reach orgasm.

There are lots of different lubes available. Here we will take a look at some of the more popular extreme masturbation lubes.

Silicon Lubes Offer Perfect All Round Play

Silicone lube is amazing to use for any type of wet play (bath or shower masturbation sessions). Be warned though that it is VERY slippery, so use sparingly being careful not to get any on the surfaces that you may need to stand on as you could slip and hurt yourself!

Silicone lube is also great for when you are just using your hand or fingers, as it’s so smooth and slippery and lasts for ages without drying up.

Bear in mind though, that silicone lubes should never be used with silicone toys.

Waterbased Lubes for Extreme Masturbation

Waterbased lubes are perfect for use with silicone toys or any type of toys (For girls- clit stimulators, anal toys, dildo’s or vibrators and for guys- masturbators, cock rings and anal toys) as they are really light and wet.

Now if you want to spice things up by adding different sensations, why not try using a heating or tingling lube during masturbation. These can be a perfect essential for kinky BDSM or fetish play too. By simply adding this type of lube, you can create a completely different experience.

Men Get Masturbating

If you are masturbating a man I would definitely recommend Gun Oil products. They have a waterbased lube, a silicone lube, a hybrid lube (which is a mix of the two) and two types of masturbation creams for men. With any one of these products you can give your man the ultimate hand job that he definitely wont forget!

Women Get Masturbating

If you’re masturbating a woman then the Pink range is brilliant and comes in very pretty feminine packaging. They are also available in waterbased, silicone, hybrid, warming, as well as a special toy lubricant which won’t drip all over the place.

I’m also a big fan of ID Lubes and they have such a huge selection to pick from, including all the fun and fruity juicy lube pumps – perfect for oral sex.

So, for an all over better masturbation experience, get lubed up. Next time you visit your local escort, think about asking her about the lubes too.